Pride and Sensibility
January 14, 2008I’m not usually one of those women who gets all soppy over a Jane Austen adaptation, but I have really enjoyed the recent version of Sense and Sensibility on the BBC. I suspect that it’s mainly because it came at an appropriate time in my life and I seemed to empathise with the plight of the characters - particularly Marianne.
Jane Austen was born 201 years before me, and all sorts of changes have taken place in society, traditions and not least women’s place in the world between then and now. However, the feelings and emotions experienced by her heroines are still able to strike a chord today. Women still fall for the wrong men, give them too much too soon and trust them with their hopes and dreams, only to discover that the men are barely giving them a second thought.
I’ve very recently come across my own Willoughby. Someone who made me feel special, raised my expectations, engaged my trust and inevitably let me down.
Maybe one of the beauties of literature, art and music is that it can show us that we aren’t the first and we won’t be the last to feel this way. We can draw parallels in other people’s experience and delight in their ability to make something beautiful out of something painful. Let’s hope there’s a Colonel Brandon out there for all of us.
Words of wisdom and a plea to all men (and women) from the late, great Kirsty MacColl:
“So you took a little piece of me
Laid me open for the world to see
But if I meant so little to you
Why couldn’t you just leave me be?
It wouldn’t have made so much difference to you
But it meant the whole world to me”